As you know in what manner, entreating and comforting you, (as a father doth his children,)

“"As ye know how we exhorted and comforted each one of you, as a father doth his own children." Above having spoken of his behavior here he speaks of his love, which was more than what belonged to his rule over them. And what is said marks his freedom from pride. "As a father his own children, exhorting you, and encouraging you, and testifying, to the end that ye should walk worthily of God, who calleth you into His own kingdom and glory." When he says, "and testifying," then he makes mention of "fathers"; although we testified, it was not violently, but like fathers. "Each one of you." Strange! in so great a multitude to omit no one, neither small nor great, neither rich nor poor. "Exhorting" you, he says; to bear. "And comforting and testifying." "Exhorting," therefore they did not seek glory; and "testifying," therefore they did not flatter. "That ye should walk worthily of God, who calleth you into His own kingdom and glory." Observe again, how, in relating, he both teaches and comforts. For if He hath called them unto His kingdom, if He called them unto glory, they ought to endure all things. We "entreat" you, not that you should grant us any favor, but that you should gain the kingdom of heaven.”

“Above he commended them because they received the word of God in tribulations; here he commends them because they did not withdraw from him on account of tribulations. And concerning this he does three things: first he recalls their tribulations; second he shows what remedy he applied for them, in chapter III, at the words "for which cause"; third, why, at the words "because now we live." But because he had said above, concerning them, that the apostle's entrance toward their conversion was reported by all, therefore he first treats of his own entrance; second, of their conversion, at "therefore we also give thanks." Concerning the first he does three things: first he recalls his own constancy, which he had before he came to them; second, the sincerity of the teaching by which he converted them, at "for our exhortation"; third, the sincerity of his conduct with those converted, at "for you." Again, the first is divided into two: first he sets forth the tribulations which he suffered before he came to them; second, how he did not lose confidence on this account, at "we had confidence." He says therefore: I say that he announces our entrance, which you also know, that it was not vain, etc., that is, light, but difficult, because it was through many tribulations. Or "not vain," that is, empty, but full. Gen. 1:2: the earth was void and empty, etc. Or "not vain," that is, unstable, but firm. Phil. 2:17: I have not run in vain, nor labored in vain. But we suffered bodily sufferings before. Prov. 19:11: the teaching of a man is known through patience. Ps. 91:15: they shall be well enduring, that they may proclaim. Likewise spiritual [sufferings], because on this account he was afflicted with insults in Philippi, where on account of the healing of the pythoness he suffered tribulations. And this city is of Macedonia. Nor yet on account of these things was the confidence of preaching extinguished. Is. 12:2: behold, God is my savior, I will act with confidence, and I will not fear. And this confidence was to preach to you the Gospel of God in much solicitude concerning your conversion. Rom. 12:8: he who is over others, with solicitude. II Cor. 11:28: besides those things that are from without, my daily pressure, the solicitude of all the churches. Then, when he says "exhortation," he shows the sincerity of his preaching. And concerning this he does two things: first he proves the sincerity of his teaching; second he explains certain things he had said, at "not as to men." Concerning the first he does two things: first he excludes the corruption of the teaching; second he sets down the sincerity, at "but as approved." Now teaching is corrupted either on account of the matter which is taught, or on account of the intention of the one teaching. On account of the first, teaching is corrupted in two ways, namely either through error, as one teaching that salvation is through Christ together with the legal observances. II Tim. 3:13: evil men and seducers shall grow worse, erring, and sending others into error. Therefore he says: "for our exhortation is not," as that of some, "of error." Or on account of uncleanness, as those who say that one ought to give oneself over to pleasures, which teaching is from a certain Nicolaus, who permitted promiscuous marriages, sharing his wife with another; therefore he says, "nor of uncleanness." Apoc. 2:20: you permit the woman Jezebel, who calls herself a prophetess, to teach and seduce my servants to fornicate, and to eat of things sacrificed to idols, etc. Job 6:30: you shall not find iniquity in my tongue. Likewise, the exhortation is not in guile as that of some, who, although they speak the truth, nevertheless have a corrupt intention, because they seek not the profit of their hearers nor the honor of God, but their own honor. Against which he says, "nor in guile." Jer. 9:8: their tongue is a wounding arrow, it has spoken guile, etc. His preaching, therefore, is not corrupt, but sincere. Now a thing is sincere which preserves its own nature. But preaching is then sincere, when someone teaches with that same tenor and end with which Christ taught. And therefore he says, "but as approved," that is, we speak in that manner and with that intention with which God chose and approved us to preach the Gospel. Gal. 2:7: the Gospel of the uncircumcision was entrusted to me, as that of the circumcision to Peter. Acts 9:15: this man is a vessel of election to me, to carry my name before the Gentiles, and kings, and the sons of Israel. Then, when he says "not as to men," etc., he shows that his preaching is not in guile. First excluding that on account of which it might seem to be deceitful; second he makes it clear through a sign, at "nor at any time"; third through a cause, at "nor on occasion." On account of the first he says: my preaching is not as pleasing men, namely, finally. Ps. 52:6: the bones of those who please men have been scattered. Gal. 1:10: if I pleased men, I would not be the servant of Christ. Sometimes, however, they ought to wish to please men for the glory of God, that preaching may bear more fruit, as is said I Cor. 10:33: I please all men in all things, etc. But God, etc. Prov. 16:2: all the ways of man are open to his eyes. Now the sign of this is that we did not flatter, speaking to them pleasing things. Is. 30:10: speak to us pleasing things, see for us errors, etc. Prov. 24:28: do not flatter anyone with your lips, etc. And he shows the same thing through a cause. For on account of two things does someone seek to please men, namely either for the sake of benefits, or for the sake of glory. But this he excludes here, and first, the first, saying, "nor were we," etc. Because we avoid not only flattery, but also every occasion of avarice. I Tim. 6:5: supposing gain to be godliness. Jer. 6:15: for from the least even to the greatest, all are devoted to avarice. Second, the second, at "nor seeking glory from you nor from others," concerning the teaching, since we might have gloried and received — rather, to be a burden, because they owed him glory and support; whence he says, "since we could." And he calls it a burden, because those preaching to them perversely sought these things from them beyond measure. Is. 3:14: for you have devoured my vineyard, etc. Then, when he says "but we became," etc., he makes clear these two things: first, that he does not seek human glory; second, that neither [does he seek] occasion for avarice, at "for you remember." Concerning the first he does two things: for first he shows his humility; second, under a likeness, he shows his solicitude, at "as if a nurse." He sets down, therefore, the first, saying that "we became little ones," etc., that is, humble. Ecclus. 32:1: have they made you a ruler? Do not be lifted up, but be among them as one of them. This he shows in a likeness, saying "as if a nurse," who, namely, condescends to an infant, speaking to it with stammering, that the child may learn to speak, and in gestures also condescends to it. I Cor. 9:22: I have become all things to all. I Cor. 3:1: as to little ones in Christ, I gave you milk to drink, not food. Even souls. John 10:11: the good shepherd gives his soul for his sheep, etc. Because most dear, etc. II Cor. 12:15: but I will most gladly spend, and be spent myself, for your souls, etc. Then, when he says "for you remember," he shows, second, what he had said above, namely, likewise, "nor by occasion of avarice," because we took nothing from you, but from labor, because "of labor," etc. And some indeed labor, but with comfort; but we did not, but with toil. Therefore he says "of our labor," not for the exercise of the body, but with fatigue. Whence he says "and of fatigue." Some also labor by day, but we, "night and day." For by this he wished to restrain the false [preachers], who received too much, and on account of the idle among them. I Cor. 4:12: we labor, working with our own hands, etc. Then, when he says "for you are," he sets forth the purity of his conduct, and first, how holy, with regard to life; second, how solicitous, with regard to teaching, at "how each one." He says therefore: you know how holily, that is, purely. Lev. 11:44 and 19:2: be holy, because I am holy. Justly, with regard to one's neighbor. Titus 2:12: let us live soberly, and justly, and piously in this age. Without complaint, to you who have believed, that is, from the time you believed, doing nothing whereby anyone could scandalize each one of you individually. Note that individual preaching sometimes avails much. As a father. I Cor. 4:15: in Christ Jesus, through the Gospel, I have begotten you. Beseeching. Philem. 8: having much confidence in Christ Jesus to command you what pertains to the matter, on account of charity I rather beg. And consoling, through gentle words. Against which it is said, Ezek. 34:4: with austerity you commanded them, with power. Is. 61:2: that I might console all who mourn, and grant consolation to those who mourn in Sion. And what did you preach? That worthily, that is, that your conduct might be such as befits the ministers of Christ. Col. 1:10: that you walk worthily of God, pleasing him in all things. Of God, who, etc. Wis. 6:21: therefore the desire of wisdom leads to the everlasting kingdom.”

“As you know,.... This is added to the end of the last verse in the Arabic version, and which begins this verse thus, "as one of you, and as a father comforting his sons, so we", &c. but for what is said in the former verse, an appeal is made both to God and to the Thessalonians, so that there is no need of adding such a clause there; it properly stands here in connection with what follows, how we exhorted; to flee from wrath to come, and to Christ for refuge; to look to, and believe in him, as the only Saviour of lost sinners; to perform the duties of religion, and to continue in the faith; to cleave to Christ, and walk on in him as they had received him, and to abide by the truths and ordinances of the Gospel they had embraced: and comforted; under a sense of sin, with the soul comforting doctrines of free justification by the righteousness of Christ, of full pardon by his blood, and of a plenary satisfaction and atonement by his sacrifice; and under all their afflictions and persecutions for the sake of Christ, with exceeding great and precious promises of the presence, grace, and strength of Christ here, and glory hereafter: and charged everyone of you; not only publicly, but privately, going from house to house; not in an austere and domineering way, but with the greatest tenderness, and yet faithfulness: even as a father doth his children; not only in an authoritative, but in an affectionate way, and also with solid wisdom and judgment; for in such a relation, in a Spiritual sense, did the apostle and his fellow ministers stand in to them; see Co1 4:15 and the substance of the charge is as follows:”

“How we exhorted - What pastoral care is marked here! They exhorted - were continually teaching and instructing, the objects of their charge; this was their general work. And comforted - They found many under trials and temptations, and those they encouraged. And charged - Μαρτυρουμενοι· Continued witness to the people that all the threatenings and promises of God were true; that he required faith, love, and obedience; that he could not behold sin with allowance; that Jesus died to save them from their sins; and that, without holiness, none should see God. And all these things they did, not in a general way only, but they spoke to every man; none was left unnoticed, unadmonished, uncomforted. The spirit in which they performed all these branches of the pastoral care was that which was most likely to insure success; as a father treats his children, so they treated every member of the Church.”

“exhorted and comforted--Exhortation leads one to do a thing willingly; consolation, to do it joyfully [BENGEL], (Th1 5:14). Even in the former term, "exhorted," the Greek includes the additional idea of comforting and advocating one's cause: "encouragingly exhorted." Appropriate in this case, as the Thessalonians were in sorrow, both through persecutions, and also through deaths of friends (Th1 4:13). charged--"conjured solemnly," literally, "testifying"; appealing solemnly to you before God. every one of you--in private (Act 20:20), as well as publicly. The minister, if he would be useful, must not deal merely in generalities, but must individualize and particularize. as a father--with mild gravity. The Greek is, "his own children."”