So desirous of you, we would gladly impart unto you not only the gospel of God, but also our own souls: because you were become most dear unto us.

“"But we were gentle in the midst of you, as when a nurse cherisheth her own children: even so, being affectionately desirous of you, we were well pleased to impart unto you, not the Gospel of God only, but also our own souls, because ye were become very dear to us." "But we were gentle," he says; we exhibited nothing that was offensive or troublesome, nothing displeasing, or boastful. And the expression "in the midst of you," is as if one should say, we were as one of you, not taking the higher lot. "As when a nurse cherisheth her own children." So ought the teacher to be. Does the nurse flatter that she may obtain glory? Does she ask money of her little children? Is she offensive or burdensome to them? Are they not more indulgent to them than mothers? Here he shows his affection. "Even so, being affectionately desirous of you," he says, we are so bound to you, he says, and we not only take nothing of you, but if it be necessary even to impart to you our souls, we should not have refused. Tell me, then, is this of a human view? and who is so foolish as to say this? "We were well pleased to impart to you," he says, "not the Gospel of God only, but also our own souls." So that this is greater than the other. And what is the gain? For from the Gospel is gain, but to give our souls, is with respect to difficulty a greater thing than that. For merely to preach is not the same thing as to give the soul. For that indeed is more precious, but the latter is a matter of more difficulty. We were willing, he says, if it were possible, even to spend our souls upon you. And this we should have been willing to do; for if we had not been willing, we should not have endured the necessity. He who loves, ought so to love, that if he were asked even for his soul, and it were possible, he would not refuse it. For nothing, nothing can be sweeter than such love; nothing will fall out there that is grievous. Truly "a faithful friend is the medicine of life." (Ecclus. vi. 16) Truly "a faithful friend is a strong defense." (Ib. 14) For what will not a genuine friend perform? What pleasure will he not afford? what benefit? what security?”

“Above he commended them because they received the word of God in tribulations; here he commends them because they did not withdraw from him on account of tribulations. And concerning this he does three things: first he recalls their tribulations; second he shows what remedy he applied for them, in chapter III, at the words "for which cause"; third, why, at the words "because now we live." But because he had said above, concerning them, that the apostle's entrance toward their conversion was reported by all, therefore he first treats of his own entrance; second, of their conversion, at "therefore we also give thanks." Concerning the first he does three things: first he recalls his own constancy, which he had before he came to them; second, the sincerity of the teaching by which he converted them, at "for our exhortation"; third, the sincerity of his conduct with those converted, at "for you." Again, the first is divided into two: first he sets forth the tribulations which he suffered before he came to them; second, how he did not lose confidence on this account, at "we had confidence." He says therefore: I say that he announces our entrance, which you also know, that it was not vain, etc., that is, light, but difficult, because it was through many tribulations. Or "not vain," that is, empty, but full. Gen. 1:2: the earth was void and empty, etc. Or "not vain," that is, unstable, but firm. Phil. 2:17: I have not run in vain, nor labored in vain. But we suffered bodily sufferings before. Prov. 19:11: the teaching of a man is known through patience. Ps. 91:15: they shall be well enduring, that they may proclaim. Likewise spiritual [sufferings], because on this account he was afflicted with insults in Philippi, where on account of the healing of the pythoness he suffered tribulations. And this city is of Macedonia. Nor yet on account of these things was the confidence of preaching extinguished. Is. 12:2: behold, God is my savior, I will act with confidence, and I will not fear. And this confidence was to preach to you the Gospel of God in much solicitude concerning your conversion. Rom. 12:8: he who is over others, with solicitude. II Cor. 11:28: besides those things that are from without, my daily pressure, the solicitude of all the churches. Then, when he says "exhortation," he shows the sincerity of his preaching. And concerning this he does two things: first he proves the sincerity of his teaching; second he explains certain things he had said, at "not as to men." Concerning the first he does two things: first he excludes the corruption of the teaching; second he sets down the sincerity, at "but as approved." Now teaching is corrupted either on account of the matter which is taught, or on account of the intention of the one teaching. On account of the first, teaching is corrupted in two ways, namely either through error, as one teaching that salvation is through Christ together with the legal observances. II Tim. 3:13: evil men and seducers shall grow worse, erring, and sending others into error. Therefore he says: "for our exhortation is not," as that of some, "of error." Or on account of uncleanness, as those who say that one ought to give oneself over to pleasures, which teaching is from a certain Nicolaus, who permitted promiscuous marriages, sharing his wife with another; therefore he says, "nor of uncleanness." Apoc. 2:20: you permit the woman Jezebel, who calls herself a prophetess, to teach and seduce my servants to fornicate, and to eat of things sacrificed to idols, etc. Job 6:30: you shall not find iniquity in my tongue. Likewise, the exhortation is not in guile as that of some, who, although they speak the truth, nevertheless have a corrupt intention, because they seek not the profit of their hearers nor the honor of God, but their own honor. Against which he says, "nor in guile." Jer. 9:8: their tongue is a wounding arrow, it has spoken guile, etc. His preaching, therefore, is not corrupt, but sincere. Now a thing is sincere which preserves its own nature. But preaching is then sincere, when someone teaches with that same tenor and end with which Christ taught. And therefore he says, "but as approved," that is, we speak in that manner and with that intention with which God chose and approved us to preach the Gospel. Gal. 2:7: the Gospel of the uncircumcision was entrusted to me, as that of the circumcision to Peter. Acts 9:15: this man is a vessel of election to me, to carry my name before the Gentiles, and kings, and the sons of Israel. Then, when he says "not as to men," etc., he shows that his preaching is not in guile. First excluding that on account of which it might seem to be deceitful; second he makes it clear through a sign, at "nor at any time"; third through a cause, at "nor on occasion." On account of the first he says: my preaching is not as pleasing men, namely, finally. Ps. 52:6: the bones of those who please men have been scattered. Gal. 1:10: if I pleased men, I would not be the servant of Christ. Sometimes, however, they ought to wish to please men for the glory of God, that preaching may bear more fruit, as is said I Cor. 10:33: I please all men in all things, etc. But God, etc. Prov. 16:2: all the ways of man are open to his eyes. Now the sign of this is that we did not flatter, speaking to them pleasing things. Is. 30:10: speak to us pleasing things, see for us errors, etc. Prov. 24:28: do not flatter anyone with your lips, etc. And he shows the same thing through a cause. For on account of two things does someone seek to please men, namely either for the sake of benefits, or for the sake of glory. But this he excludes here, and first, the first, saying, "nor were we," etc. Because we avoid not only flattery, but also every occasion of avarice. I Tim. 6:5: supposing gain to be godliness. Jer. 6:15: for from the least even to the greatest, all are devoted to avarice. Second, the second, at "nor seeking glory from you nor from others," concerning the teaching, since we might have gloried and received — rather, to be a burden, because they owed him glory and support; whence he says, "since we could." And he calls it a burden, because those preaching to them perversely sought these things from them beyond measure. Is. 3:14: for you have devoured my vineyard, etc. Then, when he says "but we became," etc., he makes clear these two things: first, that he does not seek human glory; second, that neither [does he seek] occasion for avarice, at "for you remember." Concerning the first he does two things: for first he shows his humility; second, under a likeness, he shows his solicitude, at "as if a nurse." He sets down, therefore, the first, saying that "we became little ones," etc., that is, humble. Ecclus. 32:1: have they made you a ruler? Do not be lifted up, but be among them as one of them. This he shows in a likeness, saying "as if a nurse," who, namely, condescends to an infant, speaking to it with stammering, that the child may learn to speak, and in gestures also condescends to it. I Cor. 9:22: I have become all things to all. I Cor. 3:1: as to little ones in Christ, I gave you milk to drink, not food. Even souls. John 10:11: the good shepherd gives his soul for his sheep, etc. Because most dear, etc. II Cor. 12:15: but I will most gladly spend, and be spent myself, for your souls, etc. Then, when he says "for you remember," he shows, second, what he had said above, namely, likewise, "nor by occasion of avarice," because we took nothing from you, but from labor, because "of labor," etc. And some indeed labor, but with comfort; but we did not, but with toil. Therefore he says "of our labor," not for the exercise of the body, but with fatigue. Whence he says "and of fatigue." Some also labor by day, but we, "night and day." For by this he wished to restrain the false [preachers], who received too much, and on account of the idle among them. I Cor. 4:12: we labor, working with our own hands, etc. Then, when he says "for you are," he sets forth the purity of his conduct, and first, how holy, with regard to life; second, how solicitous, with regard to teaching, at "how each one." He says therefore: you know how holily, that is, purely. Lev. 11:44 and 19:2: be holy, because I am holy. Justly, with regard to one's neighbor. Titus 2:12: let us live soberly, and justly, and piously in this age. Without complaint, to you who have believed, that is, from the time you believed, doing nothing whereby anyone could scandalize each one of you individually. Note that individual preaching sometimes avails much. As a father. I Cor. 4:15: in Christ Jesus, through the Gospel, I have begotten you. Beseeching. Philem. 8: having much confidence in Christ Jesus to command you what pertains to the matter, on account of charity I rather beg. And consoling, through gentle words. Against which it is said, Ezek. 34:4: with austerity you commanded them, with power. Is. 61:2: that I might console all who mourn, and grant consolation to those who mourn in Sion. And what did you preach? That worthily, that is, that your conduct might be such as befits the ministers of Christ. Col. 1:10: that you walk worthily of God, pleasing him in all things. Of God, who, etc. Wis. 6:21: therefore the desire of wisdom leads to the everlasting kingdom.”

“So being affectionately desirous of you,.... Not of theirs but them; not of glory from them, nor a maintenance by them, but of their spiritual and eternal welfare; were as fond of them as a nursing mother is of her children, who, when absent from them but ever so little a while, longs to see them; see Th1 2:17 and Th1 3:1, we were willing: took the utmost pleasure, delight, and complacency: to have imparted unto you, not the Gospel of God only; the sincere milk of the word, which they did freely, fully, and for their spiritual good and profit, without any regard to any advantage of their own: but also our own souls, or "lives"; which is the highest expression and strongest proof of love that can be given; and respect is still had to the similitude of the nursing mother, who may be said to impart her blood, for such it her milk diversified, for the nourishment of her children: and such was the great concern of the apostles for the interest of Christ, the spread of the Gospel, and the good of souls, that their lives were not dear unto them, so that these ends might he answered: because ye were dear unto us; both because they were loved by God, redeemed by Christ, regenerated by the Spirit of Christ, and had the image of Christ stamped upon them; and also because that they were their spiritual children; and as children are dear to their parents, so were these to them, even to such a degree, as that, were there a necessity for it, they could freely have laid down their lives for them.”

“Being affectionately desirous of you - We had such intense love for you that we were not only willing and forward to preach the unsearchable riches of Christ to you, but also to give our own lives for your sake, because ye were dear, διοτι αγαπητοι ἡμιν, because ye were beloved by us. The words used here by the apostle are expressive of the strongest affection and attachment.”

“So--to be joined to "we were willing"; "As a nurse cherisheth . . . so we were willing," &c. [ALFORD]. But BENGEL, "So," that is, seeing that we have such affection for you. being affectionately desirous--The oldest reading in the Greek implies, literally, to connect one's self with another; to be closely attached to another. willing--The Greek is stronger, "we were well content"; "we would gladly have imparted," &c. "even our own lives" (so the Greek for "souls" ought to be translated); as we showed in the sufferings we endured in giving you the Gospel (Acts 17:1-34). As a nursing mother is ready to impart not only her milk to them, but her life for them, so we not only imparted gladly the spiritual milk of the word to you, but risked our own lives for your spiritual nourishment, imitating Him who laid down His life for His friends, the greatest proof of love (Joh 15:13). ye were--Greek, "ye were become," as having become our spiritual children. dear--Greek, "dearly beloved."”