I write not these things to confound you; but I admonish you as my dearest children.

“Then since he saw that the blow could not well be borne, he speedily heals it; saying, "I write not these things to shame you, but to admonish you as my beloved children." "For not as abashing you," saith he, "do I speak these things." The very thing which by his words he had done, this he says he had not done: rather he allows that he had done it, not however with an evil and spiteful mind. Why, this mode of soothing is the very best, if we should say what we have to say and add the apology from our motive. For not to speak was impossible, since they would have remained uncorrected: on the other hand, after he had spoken, to leave the wound untended, were hard. Wherefore along with his severity he apologizes: for this so far from destroying the effect of the knife, rather makes it sink deeper in, while it moderates the full pain of the wound. Since when a man is told that not in reproach but in love are these things said, he the more readily receives correction. However, even here also is great severity, and a strong appeal to their sense of shame, in that he said not, "As a master" nor yet "as an apostle," nor yet "as having you for my disciples; (which had well suited his claims on them;) but, "as my beloved children admonish you. And not simply, children; but, "longed after." "Forgive me," saith he. "If anything disagreeable has been said, it all proceeds of love." And he said not, "I rebuke" but "I admonish." Now, who would not bear with a father in grief, and in the act of giving good advice? Wherefore he did not say this before, but after he had given the blow. "What then?" some might say; "Do not other teachers spare us?" "I say not so, but, they carry not their forbearance so far." This however he spake not out at once, but by their professions and titles gave indication of it; "Tutor" and "Father" being the terms which he employs.”

“After the Apostle has reprimanded the Corinthians for this, that they judged the apostles rashly and presumptuously despised them, here he presses on toward their correction, and first by a word of admonition; second, by example, where he says I beg you therefore, brothers, etc.; third, by the scourge of correction, where he says as though I were not going to come, etc. Concerning the first he does three things. First he sets forth the manner of admonition, saying these things, namely what I have said to you thus far in the course of the epistle, I write not that I may confound you, namely with an evil confusion, which sends into despair, although I would wish you to be confounded with the confusion which avoids sin, according to that word of Ecclesiasticus 4:25: there is a confusion that brings sin, and there is a confusion that brings grace and glory. But I admonish you of the aforesaid things, as sons. Ecclesiastes 7:25: do you have sons? Instruct them, and take care of them from their childhood. Second he shows the fitting manner of admonishing, saying for although you should have ten thousand tutors in Christ, yet not many fathers. Here it must be considered that a father is one who first begets: but a tutor is one who nourishes and instructs one already born. Galatians 3:24: the law was our tutor in Christ. Therefore the Apostle says he is their father in Christ, because he first preached the Gospel to them. Hence, assigning the reason for what he had said, he adds for in Christ Jesus through the Gospel I have begotten you. Now generation is a process toward life, and man lives in Christ through faith. Galatians 2:20: but that I now live in the flesh, I live in the faith of the Son of God. But faith, as is said in Romans 10:17, is from hearing, and hearing through the word. Hence the word of God is the seed by which the Apostle begot them in Christ. Hence James 1:18: of his own will he begot us by the word of truth. But he calls others tutors, because after they had received the faith, these helped them: so that the same comparison is to be understood, as regards the preaching of the Gospel, of the tutor to the father, which was set out above in III, 6ff., as of the one who waters to the one who plants, and of the one who builds upon to the one who lays the foundation. Then, when he says I beg you therefore, brothers, he presses on to correct them by his own example. And first he exhorts them to imitate his example, saying: therefore since you are sons, since it belongs to good sons to imitate their fathers, I beg you, be imitators of me, namely that you may not judge rashly, just as I do not, because I do not presume to judge even myself, and that you may think humbly of yourselves, and more highly of others. Hence it was not without cause that he used this manner of speaking: we are weak, you are strong. 2 Thessalonians 3:9: that we might give ourselves as a pattern to you, for you to imitate. It must be noted, however, that those whom above he named sons, he now names brothers. But he had called them his sons in Christ, because he had begotten them not for himself, but for Christ, and because he himself had been begotten by Christ, he consequently had them as brothers and sons. Therefore they ought to imitate him as a father only insofar as he himself imitated Christ, who is the principal father of all. And by this, occasion is taken away from subjects of clinging to the bad examples of their superiors. Hence in this subjects ought to imitate their superiors only in that in which these superiors themselves imitate Christ, who is the infallible rule of truth; hence he set himself as an example to the apostles. John 13:15: I have given you an example, that as I have done, etc. Which example indeed Paul followed, according to that saying of Job 23:11: my foot has followed his steps, I have kept his way, and have not declined from it. Second he removes the excuse of ignorance, saying for this reason I have sent to you Timothy, who is my most dear and faithful son in the Lord, according to that saying of Philippians 2:20, speaking of Timothy: I have no one so like-minded, who is solicitous for you with sincere affection. Who will remind you of my ways, that is, who will teach you my proceedings, that is, all my works, and admonish you to follow them, according to that saying of Jeremiah 6:16: ask about the ancient paths, which is the good way, and walk in it. Which ways indeed are in Christ, and therefore you ought not to disdain to follow them, according to that saying of Psalm 24:4: show me your ways, O Lord. And let this not seem burdensome to you, because I impose this on all in common. Hence he adds as I teach everywhere in the Church. Colossians 1:5f: you have heard the gospel of truth, which has come to you, as also in the whole world. Or what he says my ways is to be referred to works, but what he says as also everywhere is to be referred to teachings. For to this end Timothy had been sent, that he might induce them to imitate his works, and to hold to the Apostle's teachings. Then, when he says as though I were not going to come to you, he threatens them with the scourge of correction. And first he shows that they are worthy of the scourge of correction, saying as though I were not going to come to you, some are puffed up, namely among you, as though not fearing to be convicted of their pride by me, and yet they are worthy of scourges: for the humble are corrected by words alone, but the proud need scourges, according to that saying of Job 40:7: look upon all the proud, and confound them. Second he foretells to them his coming, by which he will come to judge, where first he foretells the coming, saying but I will come to you quickly. And because it is said in Proverbs 16:9: the heart of man disposes his way, but it is the Lord's to direct his steps, therefore he adds if the Lord will. James 4:15: if the Lord will, and if we shall live, we will do this or that. Second he foretells to them his judicial knowledge, when he says and I will know, namely in judicial order, according to that saying of Job 29:16: the cause which I did not know, I investigated most diligently. Not the speech of those who are puffed up, but the power, as if to say: not on account of these things will those be approved by my examination who abound in words, but if they should abound in power; because, as is said in Proverbs 14:23, where words are very many, there is often poverty. Third he assigns the reason, saying for the kingdom of God is not in speech, but in power, that is, those who abound in speech do not for that reason belong to the kingdom of God, according to that saying of Matthew 7:21: not everyone who says to me: Lord, Lord, shall enter into the kingdom of heaven, but he who does the will of my Father. Lastly he threatens them with correction, reserving nevertheless the correction to their own choice, saying what do you want? Shall I come to you with a rod, namely of discipline, to chastise you, or in charity, that is, in a showing of love, and in a spirit of gentleness, so that I may do nothing harsher with you? For this depends on you; for if you remain in the way of folly, it is necessary for me to come to you with a rod, according to that saying of Proverbs 22:15: folly is bound up in the heart of a child, and the rod of discipline will drive it away. But if you correct yourselves, I will show you charity and gentleness, Galatians, last chapter: you who are spiritual, instruct such a one in the spirit of gentleness. But he does not say this as though, if coming with the rod, he would not come with charity, since it is written in Proverbs 13:24: he who spares the rod, hates his son; but he who loves him, instructs him diligently — but because he who is chastised with the rod does not always feel the sweetness of charity, as do those whom he consoles gently.”

“Here Paul challenges their regard to him as their father. He tells them, 1. That what he had written was not for their reproach, but admonition; not with the gall of an enemy, but the bowels of a father (Co1 4:14): I write not to shame you, but as my beloved children I warn you. Note, In reproving for sin, we should have a tender regard to the reputation, as well as the reformation, of the sinner. We should aim to distinguish between them and their sins, and take care not to discover any spite against them ourselves, nor expose them to contempt and reproach in the world. Reproofs that expose commonly do but exasperate, when those that kindly and affectionately warn are likely to reform. When the affections of a father mingle with the admonitions of a minister, it is to be hoped that they may at once melt and mend; but to lash like an enemy or executioner will provoke and render obstinate. To expose to open shame is but the way to render shameless. 2. He shows them upon what foundation he claimed paternal relation to them, and called them his sons. They might have other pedagogues or instructors, but he was their father; for in Christ Jesus he had begotten them by the gospel, Co1 4:15. They were made Christians by his ministry. He had laid the foundation of a church among them. Others could only build upon it. Whatever other teachers they had, he was their spiritual father. He first brought them off from pagan idolatry to the faith of the gospel and the worship of the true and living God. He was the instrument of their new birth, and therefore claimed the relation of a father to them, and felt the bowels of a father towards them. Note, There commonly is, and always ought to be, an endeared affection between faithful ministers and those they beget in Christ Jesus through the gospel. They should love like parents and children. 3. We have here the special advice he urges on them: Wherefore I beseech you be you followers of me, Co1 4:16. This he elsewhere explains and limits (Co1 11:1): "Be you followers of me, as I also am of Christ. Follow me as far as I follow Christ. Come up as close as you can to my example in those instances wherein I endeavour to copy after his pattern. Be my disciples, as far as I manifest myself to be a faithful minister and disciple of Christ, and no further. I would not have you be my disciples, but his. But I hope I have approved myself a faithful steward of the mysteries of Christ, and a faithful servant of my master Christ; so far follow me, and tread in my steps." Note, Ministers should so live that their people may take pattern from them, and live after their copy. They should guide them by their lives as well as their lips, go before them in the way to heaven, and not content themselves with pointing it out. Note, As ministers are to set a pattern, others must take it. They should follow them as far as they are satisfied that they follow Christ in faith and practice.”

“I write not these things to shame you,.... Though they had a great deal of reason to be ashamed of the vain opinion they had of themselves, and that they suffered the faithful ministers of Christ to want the necessaries of life, when they abounded so much with the good things of it; and though the apostle's view in giving this narrative was to bring them under a sense of their faults, and to a conviction of them, and so to shame for them, in order to their future reformation and amendment; yet it was not merely to put them to the blush, but to admonish and instruct them, that he enlarged on these things: but as my beloved sons I warn you; they being his children in a spiritual sense, for whom he had the strongest love and affection, as their spiritual Father; and as it was his place, and became him standing in such a relation to them, he warned, admonished, and put them in mind of their obligations and duty to him.”

“I write not these things to shame you - It is not by way of finding fault with you for not providing me with the necessaries of life that I write thus; but I do it to warn you to act differently for the time to come; and be not so ready to be drawn aside by every pretender to apostleship, to the neglect of those to whom, under God, you owe your salvation.”

“I write not. St. Paul here insinuates to the Corinthians, that they ought to blush with shame for neglecting the apostles, who had suffered so many hardships for them, to follow after teachers void of honour, and to glory in being called the disciples of such men. (Estius) — I admonish you as my dearest children, of what is for your good, and I may take this liberty, as being your spiritual father in Christ, by whom you were first made Christians. Be ye followers of me, as I also am of Christ: follow the doctrine of Christ, which I follow, and taught you. Timothy, my beloved son in the Lord, whom I send to you, will put you in mind of what I teach, and of what I practise. (Witham)”