Walk with wisdom towards them that are without, redeeming the time.

“What Christ said to His disciples, that doth Paul also now advise. And what did Christ say? "Behold, I send you forth as sheep in the midst of wolves: be ye therefore wise as serpents, and harmless as doves." (Matt. x. 16.) That is, be upon your guard, giving them no handle against you. For therefore it is added, "towards them that are without," in order that we may know that against our own members we have no need of so much caution as against those without. For where brethren are, there are both many allowances and kindnesses. There is indeed need of caution even here; but much more without, for it is not the same to be amongst enemies and foes, and amongst friends. Then because he had alarmed them, see how again he encourages them; "Redeeming," he saith, "the time": that is, the present time is short. Now this he said, not wishing them to be crafty, nor hypocrites, (for this is not a part of wisdom, but of senselessness,) but what? In matters wherein they harm you not, he means, give them no handle; as he says also, when writing to the Romans, "Render to all their dues: tribute to whom tribute is due, custom to whom custom, honor to whom honor." (Rom. xiii. 7.) On account of the Preaching alone have thou war, he saith, let this war have none other origin. For though they were to become our foes for other causes besides, yet neither shall we have a reward, and they will become worse, and will seem to have just complaints against us. For instance, if we pay not the tribute, if we render not the honors that are due, if we be not lowly. "Walk in wisdom" he saith, "towards them that are without, redeeming the time." That is, the time is not yours, but theirs. Do not then wish to have your own way, but redeem the time. And he said not simply, "Buy," but "redeem," making it yours after another manner. For it were the part of excessive madness, to invent occasions of war and enmity. For over and above the undergoing of superfluous and profitless dangers, there is this additional harm, that the Greeks will not come over to us. For when thou art amongst the brethren, reason is thou shouldest be bold; but when without, thou oughtest not to be so. Seest thou how everywhere he speaks of those without, the Greeks? Wherefore also when writing to Timothy, he said, "Moreover, he must have good testimony from them that are without." (1 Tim. iii. 7.) And again, "For what have I to do with judging them that are without." (1 Cor. v. 12.) "Walk in wisdom," he saith, "toward them that are without." For "without," they are, even though they live in the same world with us, seeing they are without the kingdom, and the paternal mansion. And he comforts them withal, by calling the others "without," as he said above, "Your life is hid with Christ in God." (Col. iii. 3.) Then, he saith, seek ye glory, then honors, then all those other things, but not so now, but give them up to those without.”

“Above he set down special teachings for each state of man; here he sets down what pertains to all, yet with respect to different persons. And first he shows how they ought to conduct themselves toward others; second, how others ought to conduct themselves toward them, at the place *what concerns me*, etc. Again, the first part is divided into two: first he shows how they ought to conduct themselves toward the apostle himself, their prelate; second, how toward others, especially unbelievers, at the place *in wisdom*. Concerning the first he does two things: first he urges them universally to pray; second, that they pray for him, at the place *praying*. Now prayer ought to have three qualities, namely that it be assiduous, grateful, and watchful. Assiduous — hence he says *being persistent in prayer*, that is, pray with perseverance. 1 Thess. 5:17: *pray without ceasing*, etc. Lk. 18:1: *it is necessary always to pray, and never to lose heart*. Likewise watchful, so that the mind not be weighed down; therefore it is added *watching*. 1 Pet. 4:7: *watch in prayers*, etc. Lk. 6:12: *he spent the night in prayer*, etc. Likewise grateful, that is, in thanksgiving — otherwise one does not merit new benefits, if one were ungrateful for those already received; hence there follows *in thanksgiving*. Phil. 4:6: *with thanksgiving*. 1 Thess. 5:18: *in all things give thanks*. Consequently he asks that they pray for him, saying *praying*, etc., because it is a debt that subjects pray for their prelates, since prelates guard them, and their good is the common good of all. 2 Thess. 3:1: *pray for us, that the word of the Lord may run*, etc. And this, that God may *open a door*, that is, the mouth, through which speech goes forth from the heart, and that God may give the grace of worthily uttering his word. In an opening, moreover, something great is signified. Matt. 5:2: *opening his mouth he taught them*, etc. And therefore he adds *to speak*. 1 Cor. 12:2: *it is the spirit that speaks mysteries*. And these I need, because on account of the word of Christ I suffer tribulations. Therefore it is to be prayed that I may be able to do so freely. 2 Tim. 2:9: *I labor even unto chains*. And in this manner, that he may *make it manifest*, that is, that he may disclose it, etc. There can be three impediments to the word: namely, either on account of fear, and therefore he says *in chains*; or on account of its loftiness, such that the hearers might not be able to understand it, and therefore he says *that I may make it manifest*; or on account of an unfitness of time or manner, and therefore he says *as I ought*. 1 Cor. 3:1: *I could not speak to you as to spiritual men*, etc. Lk. 12:42: *a faithful and prudent steward, whom*, etc. Consequently, when he says *in wisdom*, etc., he shows how they ought to conduct themselves toward outsiders, and first in conduct; second how in speech, at the place *your speech*. He says therefore *walk in wisdom* toward *those who are outside*, that is, unbelievers; *in wisdom*, that is, wisely. Wis. 7:28: *God loves no one except him who dwells with wisdom*, etc. And the reason for this is *redeeming*, etc. One redeems his own vexation when he gives up what is his by right, in order to avoid it. These men were being vexed by them; therefore he wants them to redeem it through wisdom. 1 Pet. 2:12: *having your conduct good among the Gentiles*, etc. Likewise he teaches, second, how they ought to conduct themselves in speaking. And first, that their speech be gracious; hence he says *let your speech always be in grace*. Ecclus. 6:5: *a gracious tongue abounds in a good man*. Second, that it be discreet; hence he says *seasoned with salt*. By salt is understood discretion: for through it every food that is seasoned is made savory, so every action without discretion is unsavory and disordered. Matt. 9: *have salt in yourselves, and have peace among yourselves*. And this *that you may know*, etc.: for one must answer the wise in one way, the foolish in another. Prov. ch. 26:4: *answer not a fool according to his folly, lest you become like him*, etc. 1 Pet. 3:15: *always ready to give satisfaction to everyone who asks you a reason*, etc. Then, when he says *what concerns me*, etc., he shows what others do toward them; and first he shows what those whom he sends to them do toward them; second, what those remaining with the apostle do, at the place *greets*. Now he sends to them a delegate, whom he first describes in three ways: first from love, calling him *most beloved brother*, namely through charity, which makes a man more precious than gold. Is. 13:12: *a man shall be more precious than gold, and a human being more than refined gold*, etc. Likewise from faith, hence he says *faithful in ministry*. 1 Cor. 4:2: *here now it is required among stewards that one be found faithful*. Likewise from humility, hence he says *and fellow servant*, namely in the carrying out of the ministry; but *in the Lord*, because a prelate ought to seek the advantage of those over whom he is set, and the honor of God. But for what purpose is he sent? That he may know the state of his subjects. Gen. 37:14: *go and see whether all things are well with your brothers and the flocks, and bring me word again of what is being done*, etc. 1 Kings ch. 17:18: *you shall visit your brothers to see whether they are doing well, and learn with whom they are placed*. Likewise that he may console. Rom. 1:11: *for I desire to see you, that I may impart to you some spiritual grace to strengthen you*, that is, to be consoled together with you, etc. And the Lord, sent by the Father, came for this purpose. Is. 61:2: *that I might console all who mourn*, etc. Likewise he describes his companionship with Onesimus, *who all the things that are done here*, etc. And your affairs to me, that I may correct them, and mine to you, that you may have an example. Then, when he says *greets*, etc., he shows how they are greeted by those remaining with the apostle, and the text is sufficiently clear. *Concerning whom you have received*, etc. Acts 13:5 it is said that when Paul and Barnabas were traveling together, a certain John Mark joined himself to them in such a way that afterward he departed and later returned again. And Paul indeed was unwilling to receive him, but Barnabas was willing. And therefore Paul withdrew from Barnabas. And on account of this the apostle wrote to the Colossians concerning Mark, that they should not receive him; but now, because he had turned back, he writes that they should receive him: and this is *you have received*, etc. Or, the brother of Barnabas, concerning whom you have received from Barnabas, etc. And *Jesus who is called Justus*, who indeed was a man of holy conduct, and therefore is called Justus. *Who are of the circumcision*, sent to preach the Gospel of Christ. Phil. 1:18: *For what does it matter? Provided that in every way, whether by occasion or by truth, Christ is proclaimed*. And thus he sets down first the Gentiles, second the Jews. *Epaphras, who is from among you*, etc., because he was an Asian. And to this end they greet you, *that you may stand perfect*. Jas. 1:4: *that you may be perfect also*, etc. *Full*, etc., that is, in all things which pertain to the will of God. Likewise he mentions Luke, who was not born of the Jews, as it seems, because he was an Antiochene, a physician by trade, whom he names specially, because he was a man of good authority in the Church on account of the Gospel which he wrote while the apostle was still living. Then he says *greet*, etc., he shows whom they should greet, and first how others of another church; second how those who are of their own, at the place *and that which is of the Laodiceans* — from which it is gathered that he wrote other epistles, namely this one which is mentioned here, that is, to the Laodiceans, and another one to the Corinthians, besides the first and the second: for in the first epistle, ch. 5, he says: *I wrote to you in an epistle, that you should not associate with fornicators*, etc. But there is a twofold reason why they are not in the canon: because their authority was not established, since perhaps they had been corrupted, and had perished in the churches. Or because they contained nothing other than what these do. And *say to Archippus* — this man was their prelate, and he instructs that they admonish him, saying: *see*, etc. 2 Tim. 4:5: *fulfill your ministry*. And indeed he then fulfills his ministry when he does that for which he received it. But it seems that it does not pertain to a subject to admonish a prelate, Ex. 19:24. It must be said that to argue and reproach irreverently is forbidden, but to admonish charitably is permitted, as Paul did Peter, Gal. 2:11. But why did he not write to the prelate? Because the prelate exists for the sake of the Church, and not the reverse. *The salutation*, etc. It was the apostle's custom to have someone else write the whole epistle, but at the end he would put something in his own hand — 2 Thess., last chapter, where he says: *the salutation is by my own hand, Paul's* — the same also here, lest they be deceived. And he says *be mindful*, etc., because he was in chains at Rome: for Jas. 5:10: *take as an example, brothers, the outcome of hardship and of long-suffering and of labor and of patience, the prophets who spoke in the name of the Lord*, etc. Heb., last chapter: *remember your leaders who have spoken to you the word of God, and considering the outcome of their conduct, imitate their faith*. Finally, concluding, he wishes them good, saying *grace*, etc. Jn. 1:17: *grace and truth came through Jesus Christ*: to whom be praise and glory, now and forever. Amen.”

“The apostle exhorts them further to a prudent and decent conduct towards all those with whom they conversed, towards the heathen world, or those out of the Christian church among whom they lived (Col 4:5): Walk in wisdom towards those who are without. Be careful, in all your converse with them, to get no hurt by them, or contract any of their customs; for evil communications corrupt good manners; and to do not hurt to them, or increase their prejudices against religion, and give them an occasion of dislike. Yea, do them all the good you can, and by all the fittest means and in the proper seasons recommend religion to them. - Redeeming the time; that is, either "improving every opportunity of doing them good, and making the best use of your time in proper duty" (diligence in redeeming time very much recommends religion to the good opinion of others), or else "walking cautiously and with circumspections, to give them no advantage against you, nor expose yourselves to their malice and ill-will," Eph 5:15, Eph 5:16. Walk circumspectly, redeeming the time, because the days are evil, that is, dangerous, or times of trouble and suffering. And towards others, or those who are within as well as those who are without, "Let your speech be always with grace, Col 4:6. Let all your discourse be as becomes Christians, suitable to your profession - savoury, discreet, seasonable." Though it be not always of grace, it must be always with grace; and, though the matter of our discourse be that which is common, yet there must be an air of piety upon it and it must be in a Christian manner seasoned with salt. Grace is the salt which seasons our discourse, makes it savoury, and keeps it from corrupting. That you may know how to answer every man. One answer is proper for one man, and another for another man Pro 26:4, Pro 26:5. We have need of a great deal of wisdom and grace to give proper answers to every man, particularly in answering the questions and objections of adversaries against our religion, giving the reasons of our faith, and showing the unreasonableness of their exceptions and cavils to the best advantage for our cause and least prejudice to ourselves. Be ready always to give an answer to every man who asketh you a reason of the hope that is in you, with meekness and fear, Pe1 3:15.”

“Walk in wisdom,.... Or wisely, circumspectly, not as fools, but as wise men; See Gill on Eph 5:15. Towards them that are without; so the Jews used to call the Gentiles, all that were out of their own land, that were not of their nation or religion, who were aliens from them, and strangers to their privileges; and sometimes the unbelieving. Jews bear the same character, see Mar 4:11. Here it may design such who were not members of this church; so the distinction of those that are without, and such as are within, is used by the apostle in Co1 5:12. A church is an house or family, and such as belong to it are called the household of faith, and those that do not are they that are, without; it is as a city, and, those that are of it are fellow citizens with the saints, but others are strangers and foreigners; it is a garden enclosed, they that are planted in it are those that are within, and such as lie in the wide open field of the world are those that are without: but inasmuch as there are some who are not members of churches, and yet have the grace of God, this phrase may chiefly regard all unregenerate men, profane sinners, such as have not faith in Christ, nor hope in God, who are entirely destitute of the grace of God. Now it becomes saints to walk wisely towards them; all communication with them is not cut off, or correspondence and conversation with them forbidden; the saints indeed are not to have their conversation among them as in times past; they are to have no fellowship with them in immoral actions, and superstitious practices; but they may be concerned with them in things civil, with respect to trade and commerce, and the common business of life; on these accounts they may keep company with them; otherwise, as the apostle elsewhere says, they must needs go out of the world. But then it is incumbent upon them to behave wisely towards them, with the simplicity of the dove to join the wisdom of the serpent; they should walk inoffensively towards them, and do nothing to provoke them, to injure and persecute them, but take all prudent methods to gain their affections, escape their resentment and wrath, and obtain their liberty of worshipping God without disturbance; they should give to all their due, tribute, custom, fear, and honour, to whom they are due, and owe no man anything but love; they should submit to every ordinance of men and be subject to the higher powers, not only to escape wrath, but for conscience sake, and should give to Caesar the things that are Caesar's; they should pray for kings, and all in authority; for the prosperity of the nation, city, and place where they are, for their carnal relations and neighbours, and even their very entities, and do them all the good, both for soul and body, that lies in their power, and as they have opportunity; and by so doing, they will heap up coals of fire on their heads. Such a prudent walk, and wise conduct, is necessary on account of the Gospel, that the public ministration of it may be continued, that it may spread and get ground, and that it may not be reproached and blasphemed; and on the account of them that are without, that they may not have any stumblingblocks laid in their way, and they be hardened in their impiety and irreligion, and be more set against the truths of the Gospel; and also on account of believers themselves, who ought so to converse with the men of the world, that they are not partakers with them in their sins, and have their manners corrupted by them, or the vital heat of religion damped, and they become dead, lifeless, lukewarm, and indifferent to divine things, which is often the case through an indiscreet and imprudent walk with such men: the apostle adds, redeeming the time; as an instance of prudent walking towards them that are without; See Gill on Eph 5:16.”

“Redeeming the time. This expression occurs also in the epistle to the Ephesians, and seems to insinuate to the faithful to be on their guard not to irritate the Gentiles, nor to provoke them to persecution. Remember, says he, the times are bad; conduct yourselves with prudence; gain time, procure peace, and remain in silence. This was written towards the end of the reign of Nero, as cruel a prince as ever lived. (Calmet)”

“(See on Eph 5:15-16.) in wisdom--practical Christian prudence. them . . . without--Those not in the Christian brotherhood (Co1 5:12; Th1 4:12). The brethren, through love, will make allowances for an indiscreet act or word of a brother; the world will make none. Therefore be the more on your guard in your intercourse with the latter, lest you be a stumbling-block to their conversion. redeeming the time--The Greek expresses, buying up for yourselves, and buying off from worldly vanities the opportunity, whenever it is afforded you, of good to yourselves and others. "Forestall the opportunity, that is, to buy up an article out of the market, so as to make the largest profit from it" [CONYBEARE and HOWSON].”