And you have forgotten the consolation, which speaketh to you, as unto children, saying: My son, neglect not the discipline of the Lord; neither be thou wearied whilst thou art rebuked by him.

“And Sarah afflicted her; which is equivalent to corrected and admonished her. It has therefore been well said, "My son, despise not thou the correction of God; nor faint when thou art rebuked of Him. For whom the Lord loveth He chasteneth, and scourgeth every son whom He receiveth." And the foresaid Scriptures, when examined in other places, will be seen to exhibit other mysteries. We merely therefore assert here, that philosophy is characterized by investigation into truth and the nature of things (this is the truth of which the Lord Himself said, "I am the truth"); and that, again, the preparatory training for rest in Christ exercises the mind, rouses the intelligence, and begets an inquiring shrewdness, by means of the true philosophy, which the initiated possess, having found it, or rather received it, from the truth itself.”

“Moreover, if we believe that some inflictions are sent on us by the Lord, to whom should we more exhibit patience than to the Lord? Nay, He teaches us to give thanks and rejoice, over and above, at being thought worthy of divine chastisement. "Whom I love," saith He, "I chasten." O blessed servant, on whose amendment the Lord is intent! with whom He deigns to be wroth!whom He does not deceive by dissembling His reproofs!On every side, therefore, we are bound to the duty of exercising patience, from whatever quarter, either by our own errors or else by the snares of the Evil One, we incur the Lord's reproofs.”

“In truth, tribulations are, for those well prepared, like certain foods and exercises for athletes which lead the contestant on to the hereditary glory, if, when reviled, we bless; if when maligned, we entreat; if ill-treated, we give thanks; if afflicted, we glory in our afflictions. It is indeed shameful for us to bless on propitious occasions but be silent on dark and difficult ones. On the contrary, we must bless even more at that time, knowing that "the Lord disciplines him whom he loves and chastises every son whom he receives."”

“"And ye have forgotten the exhortation." That is, And ye have slackened your hands, ye have become faint. "Which" (he says) "speaketh unto you as unto sons, My son, despise not thou the chastening of the Lord, nor faint when thou art rebuked of Him." He has drawn his encouragement from the facts themselves; over and above he adds also that which is drawn from arguments, from this testimony. "Faint not" (he says) "when thou art rebuked of Him." It follows that these things are of God. For this too is no small matter of consolation, when we learn that it is God's work that such things have power, He allowing them; even as also Paul says; "He said unto me, My grace is sufficient for thee: for My strength is made perfect in weakness." He it is who allows them.”

“Above, the Apostle led us to bear evils patiently by the example of the ancient fathers and of Christ; here he admonishes to the same thing from the authority of Scripture. Hence concerning this he does three things. For first he sets forth the authority; second he shows its sense, at the place persevere in discipline; third he argues to his proposal from what has gone before, at the place but if you are without discipline. He sets forth the authority, which is found in Prov. III, 11; but under other words than our text has. For there we have it thus: My son, reject not the discipline of the Lord, nor faint when you are reproved by him. For whom the Lord loves he reproves, and, like a father, takes pleasure in a son. But because the Apostle introduces this authority for the sake of consolation, therefore he uses other words. Hence he says, and you have forgotten the consolation, as if to say: it is a wonder if you have forgotten. Ps. XCIII, 19: according to the multitude of my sorrows in my heart, thy comforts have given joy to my soul. The same: I will never forget thy justifications. But he says, of consolation, that is, of God consoling, and it is an emphatic expression. II Cor. I, v. 3 s.: blessed be God and the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of mercies, and the God of all consolation, who comforts us in all our tribulation. There follows, which speaks to you, that is, the God of consolation, speaks to you as to sons. Therefore if he punishes, he does not hate: but his punishment is ordered to good, because he speaks to you as to sons. Then he sets forth the words of the author, saying, my son, etc. And he adds the reason, at the place for whom he loves, etc. But in the authority he forbids two things; for he forbids hatred of discipline, and impatience toward it. On account of the first he says, my son, do not neglect, as certain ones who hate discipline, of whom it is said, Prov. IX, 8: do not rebuke a scorner, lest he hate thee. Amos V, 10: they have hated him that speaks in the gate, and have abhorred him that rebukes perfectly. The Apostle therefore says, do not neglect the discipline of the Lord, as if to say: when God scourges you for the sake of discipline, do not neglect it, that is, do not hold it negligently by loathing it. Wis. III, 11: he who rejects wisdom and discipline is unhappy. On account of the second he says, and do not grow weary while you are reproved by him. For some, even if they do not hate harsh correction, nevertheless bear it impatiently, and therefore he says, neither be weary, etc. For then a man is spiritually wearied, when he is saddened to such an extent that he faints. Above, the same: that you be not wearied, fainting in your minds. Ecclus. VI, 26: do not grow weary in her bonds. Then, when he says, for whom the Lord loves he chastises, he assigns the reason. But as the Philosopher says, the term chastisement is commonly used of children and of concupiscence. For we call a man chaste whose concupiscence has been chastised. Likewise a boy is called chastised who is well disciplined. For what of itself has a proneness to evil needs something to restrain it. But such is concupiscence, and children, who of themselves follow their own impulses; therefore they need one who chastises. He therefore who chastises does this so that they may not tend toward evil. And because our senses and our thought are prone to evil, as is said in Gen. VIII, 21, therefore the Lord chastises us, that he may draw us back from evil. Ps. CXVII, 18: the Lord chastising has chastised me, and has not delivered me over to death. Ier. XXXI, 18: thou hast chastised me, and I have been instructed, like an untamed young steer. In this he chastises, because he scourges, not indeed unto condemnation, but unto salvation. Hence he says that he scourges every son whom he receives. And therefore, they who are not scourged are not of the number of sons. Ps. LXXII, 5: they are not in the labor of men, and shall not be scourged with men — whence this is a sign, as it were, of eternal reprobation. Ez. XVI, 42: my zeal shall be taken away from thee. Nor is it a wonder if he scourges every son whom he receives by adoption: because he did not spare his own Son. Lc., last chapter, v. 26: it behooved Christ to suffer. Consequently, when he says, persevere in discipline, he shows the sense of the authority already alleged: and first he shows the sense of the admonition; second he assigns the sense of the reason, at the place as to sons; third he shows that this reason is fitting, at the place for what son. But the Apostle's admonition had been that they ought not to neglect the discipline of the Lord, nor even grow weary. But he comprehends both in these words. For not to neglect, nor even to grow weary under discipline, is nothing other than to persevere in discipline. Hence Iob VI, 10: this be my comfort, that afflicting me with sorrow, he spare not. Ps. II, 12: take hold of discipline, etc. But why we ought not to neglect it, he had said, because whom the Lord loves, etc.; hence here he says, as to sons, God offers himself to you. As if to say: therefore persevere, because he offers himself as to sons. Ier. III, 19: thou shalt call me father, and shalt not cease to walk after me. Consequently he shows that this reason is fitting, saying, for what son is he whom the father does not reprove? For it pertains to a father to correct his son. Prov. XIII, 24: he who spares the rod hates his son: but he who loves him instructs him diligently. Ecclus. XXX, 8: an untamed horse turns out stubborn, and a son left to himself turns out reckless. And therefore correction is necessary: as a sting of the flesh was given to Paul, lest he should fall through pride, II Cor. XII, 7. Then, when he says, but if you are without discipline, etc., he argues from what has gone before: and first by leading to an absurdity; second from a certain example, at the place then, the fathers, etc.; third from the resulting benefit, at the place now all discipline, etc. Concerning the first he makes such a reasoning: all the saints who pleased God passed through many tribulations, through which they were made sons of God. Therefore he who does not persevere in discipline is not a son, but rather a bastard, that is, born of adultery. Of this reasoning he sets forth only the conclusion, saying: if you are without discipline, you are not sons, but bastards: because all, namely the saints, were made partakers of discipline. II Tim. III, v. 12: all who wish to live godly in Christ shall suffer persecution. Iudith VIII, 23: all who pleased God, the faithful, passed through many tribulations. Nor is it necessary that the saints always have exterior tribulations, since they are afflicted inwardly by the evil conduct of the perverse. II Petr. c. II, 8: Lot dwelling among them, who from day to day tormented the just soul with unjust deeds. But a son is properly so called who is from a legitimate father. Our mother is the Church, whose spouse is God himself. Os. II, 20: I will espouse thee to me in faith. But the adulterer is the Devil and the world. Therefore they who are born of the spirit of the Devil, or of the world, are children of adultery. Is. LVII, 3: draw near hither, sons of a diviner-woman, and of an adulterer, and of a harlot. It is clear therefore that properly none are sons, except those born of a legitimate father. Consequently, when he says, then, the fathers, etc., he sets forth the second reason, taken from that which we have experienced, namely from paternal correction. This reasoning indeed proceeds from a twofold difference, which is between God the Father and a carnal father. Now this is the first difference of God the Father to a carnal father. For man begets man as to the body, not as to the soul, which is through creation, and is not transmitted. II Mach. VII, 22: for neither did I give you spirit and soul. Hence he says that we have had the fathers of our flesh as instructors. Ecclus. VII, 25: hast thou sons? Instruct them. And we reverenced them. Ex. XX, v. 12: honor thy father and mother, etc. But God is our father in a more excellent way, namely as to the soul, which he creates immediately. Eccle., last chapter: the spirit return to God, who gave it. Likewise he justifies the soul, adopting us as sons. Rom. VIII, 16: the Spirit gives testimony to our spirit, that we are the sons of God. Therefore he says, shall we not much more obey the Father of spirits, that is, of our souls, which are called spirits because they are not from matter, and live? For the end of obedience is eternal life. Io. c. VIII, 52: if any man keep my word, he shall not taste death forever. Above, V, 9: he became to all who obey him the cause of eternal salvation. But the second difference is of human correction to the divine, which differ in two things: first as to the end, because the end of human correction is something transitory: for it is unto conducting oneself well in this life, which is of few days. Second as to the rule, because man corrects according to his own will, which can be deceived and err, and yet we obey him. But in divine correction it is not so: because he instructs us unto something useful forever, namely unto receiving sanctification, which is indeed God himself. Is. VIII, 13 s.: the Lord of hosts, him sanctify. Let him be your fear, let him be your dread, and he shall be unto you for a sanctification. And therefore he says, and they indeed instructed us for a time of few days, and this as to the first; and according to their own will, and this as to the second; but he, unto that which is profitable. Is. XLVIII, 17: I am the Lord, teaching thee profitable things. And this in receiving sanctification, that is, unto sanctification to be received from him; and therefore we ought the more to receive his discipline. There follows, now all discipline, etc. This is the third reason, which is taken from the usefulness of correction. But since punishments are a kind of medicine, the same judgment seems to hold concerning correction and concerning medicine. But as medicine in the taking is indeed bitter and abominable, yet its end is very sweet and desirable, so also is discipline, because it is grievous to bear but brings forth the best fruit. But it must be known that discipline is named from learning. But children, who are learning, are instructed by scourges. And therefore discipline is sometimes taken for knowledge, as at the beginning of the first of the Posterior Analytics: all teaching and all discipline, etc., which in Greek is called epistemon. But sometimes it is taken for correction, and in Greek is called paedia, but in Latin it does not have names so distinct. He says therefore that all discipline, namely which is instruction through scourges and troubles, in the present seems to be not of joy, but of grief, because outwardly it has sadness in the bearing, but inwardly it has sweetness from the intention of the end. And therefore he says seems, and does not say is. II Cor. VI, 10: as sorrowful, yet always rejoicing. Io. XVI, 21: a woman, when she is in labor, has sorrow, etc. II Cor. IV, v. 17: for that which in the present is momentary and light of our tribulation works in us, beyond measure, in sublimity, an eternal weight of glory. And therefore he says afterward, it yields fruit. For fruit implies sweetness; hence to enjoy is to be delighted in an end attained. Most peaceable. For fruit is had here with the disturbance of external inconveniences, and of interior temptations, and therefore it is not most peaceable, as it is there. In glory indeed there will be nothing inwardly gnawing at conscience, nor impelling to fault, nor outwardly saddening. For there, as Augustine says, there will be whatsoever you will: therefore that fruit is most peaceable. Peaceable indeed in tranquility of conscience, more peaceable in the receiving of the first robe, but most peaceable in the receiving of the second. Is. XXXII, 18: my people shall sit in the beauty of peace, in the tabernacles of confidence, in wealthy rest. Prov. III, 14: the first and purest fruits thereof. He will render therefore the fruit of justice, that is, which justice merits. For to him that sows justice is a faithful reward, Prov. XI, 18; likewise: the fruit of the just is a tree of life. Or of justice, unto justice to be apprehended. Os. X, 12: sow for yourselves justice in truth, and reap in the mouth of mercy. Ps. CXXV, 7: going they went and wept, etc. But fruit is not rendered, except to those exercised by it, that is, by discipline. Above, V, 14: solid food is for the perfect, those who by custom have their senses exercised.”

“And ye have forgotten the exhortation,.... Or consolation, the consolatory word or doctrine, in Pro 3:11. This, by their conduct, the apostle feared they had forgotten, and therefore puts them in mind of it; or it may be read by way of question, "and have ye forgotten?", &c. do not ye remember? it would be right to call it to mind: which speaketh unto you as unto children; not as the children of Solomon, but as the children of God, or of Christ, the wisdom of God: here, by a prosopopeia, the word of exhortation is introduced as a person speaking, my son, despise not thou the chastening of the Lord; by which is meant, not vindictive punishment; this would not be speaking to them, nor dealing with them as children, and would be contrary to the love of God towards them; besides, chastisement in this sense has been upon Christ for them, and it would be unjust to lay it on them again; but a fatherly correction is designed, and which is given in love by God, as a Father, and for the instruction of his children, as the word used signifies: and it is called not the chastening of men, but of the Lord; every chastening, or afflictive providence, is appointed by God, and is looked upon by believers, when grace is in exercise, as coming from him; and it is directed, and governed, and limited by him, and is overruled by him for his own glory, and their good: and this is not to be despised, as something nauseous and loathsome, or as not useful and unprofitable, or as insignificant and unworthy of notice, but should be esteemed for the good ends, which are sometimes answered, by it: nor faint when thou art rebuked of him; God has various ways of rebuking, reproving, and convincing, sometimes by his Spirit, sometimes by his word and ministers, and sometimes by afflictive providences; by these he rebukes his people for their sins, convinces them of them, and brings them to acknowledgment and confession; he makes them hereby sensible of their duty, in which they have been remiss, and brings them to a more constant and fervent discharge of it; he reproves them for, and convinces of their folly in trusting in the creature, or loving it too much, and of every wrong way they have been walking in; and these rebukes are not in a way of wrath, but love, and therefore saints should not faint at them: there are two extremes they are apt to run into, under such a dispensation; either to take no notice, and make light of an affliction, or else to be overwhelmed by it, and sink under it; both are guarded against in this exhortation.”

“And ye have forgotten - Or, have ye forgotten the exhortation? This quotation is made from Pro 3:11, Pro 3:12, and shows that the address there, which at first sight appears to be from Solomon to his son, or from some fatherly man to a person in affliction, is properly from God himself to any person in persecution, affliction, or distress. Despise not thou the chastening - Μη ολιγωρει παιδειας Κυριου· Do not neglect the correction of the Lord. That man neglects correction, and profits not by it, who does not see the hand of God in it; or, in other words, does not fear the rod and him who hath appointed it, and, consequently, does not humble himself under the mighty hand of God, deplore his sin, deprecate Divine judgment, and pray for mercy. Nor faint - Do not be discouraged nor despair, for the reasons immediately alleged.”

“You have forgotten the consolation, &c. He puts them in mind, that it ought to be a subject of great comfort to them, that God calls them his children, his sons, and treats them as his true and legitimate children, when he admonished them to live under discipline and obedience to him, when, to correct their disobedient and sinful ways, he sends the afflictions and persecutions in this world, which they ought to look upon as marks of his fatherly tenderness; for this is what a prudent kind father does to his legitimate children, of whom he takes the greatest care: and not to use these corrections, is to neglect them, as if they were [3]illegitimate children. We reverence the father of our flesh, (ver. 10.) our parents in this world, when they instruct and correct us, how much more ought we to obey the Father and Creator of spirits, (i.e. of our souls) that being truly sanctified by him, we may live and obtain life everlasting. (Witham)”

“forgotten--"utterly," so the Greek. Compare Heb 12:15-17, in which he implies how utterly some of them had forgotten God's word. His exhortation ought to have more effect on you than the cheers and exhortations of the spectators have on the competitors striving in the games. which--Greek, "the which," of which the following is a specimen [ALFORD]. speaketh unto you--as in a dialogue or discourse, so the Greek, implying God's loving condescension (compare Isa 1:18). despise not--literally, "Do not hold of little account." Betraying a contumacious spirit of unbelief (Heb 3:12), as "faint" implies a broken-down, weak, and desponding spirit. "Chastening" is to be borne with "subjection" (Heb 12:9); "rebuke" (more severe than chastening) is to be borne with endurance (Heb 12:7). "Some in adversity kick against God's will, others despond; neither is to be done by the Christian, who is peculiarly the child of God. To him such adverse things occur only by the decree of God, and that designed in kindness, namely, to remove the defilements adhering to the believer, and to exercise his patience" [GROTIUS].”