A.D. 397 – 1871 8 witnesses 9 excerpts
“And you, O widow, find those who will pray for you. If as a true widow and desolate you hope in God, continue constant in supplications. Persist in prayers. Treat your body as dying daily, that by dying you may live again. Avoid pleasures, that you, too, being sick, may be healed.”
“To whom is this said? To those who have no children, because they are more highly approved and have a greater opportunity of pleasing God, because all their chains are loosened to them. There is no one to hold them fast, no one to compel them to drag their chains after them. You are separated from your husband but are united to God. You have not a fellow servant for your associate, but you have your Lord.”
“"Now she that is a widow indeed, and desolate, trusteth in God, and continueth in supplications and prayers night and day. But she that liveth in pleasure is dead while she liveth." She who being a widow has not made choice of a worldly life, is a widow indeed; she who trusts in God as she ought, and continues instant in prayer night and day, is a widow indeed. Not that she, who has children, is not a widow indeed. For he commends her who brings up children as she ought. But if any one has not children, he means, she is desolate, and her he consoles, saying, that she is most truly a widow, who has lost not only the consolation of a husband, but that arising from children, yet she has God in the place of all. She is not the worse for not having children, but He fills up her need with consolation, in that she is without children. What he says amounts to this. Grieve not, when it is said that a widow ought to bring up children, as if, because thou hast no children thy worth were on that account inferior. Thou art a widow indeed, whereas she who liveth in pleasure is dead while she liveth.”
“When the Lord exhorted us to pray always and not to faint, he told of the widow whose continuous appeal brought a wicked and impious judge, who scorned both God and man, to hear her cause. From this it can be easily understood how widows, beyond all others, have the duty of applying themselves to prayer, since an example was taken from widows to encourage us all to develop a love of prayer. But, in a practice of such importance, what characteristic of widows is singled out but their poverty and desolation? Therefore, insofar as every soul understands that it is poor and desolate in this world, as long as it is absent from the Lord, it surely commends its widowhood, so to speak, to God its defender, with continual and most earnest prayer.”
“Above he instructed Timothy about the use of foods and about abstinence; here he instructs him about the dispensing of foods, which is done for spiritual persons, namely those which were dispensed to widows and to teachers. First, therefore, he instructs him about widows; second, about teachers, at the words *and those who rule well*. Concerning the first, first he shows how food is to be ministered to widows and teachers through the Church; second, what sort of widow is to be chosen, at the words *let a widow be chosen*. Again, first he shows to which widows help is to be given; second he makes clear what he has said, at the words *but if any*; third he shows the reason for what has been said, at the words *if anyone*. He says therefore, *honor widows*, not only by showing reverence, but by supplying necessities. For these two things are understood in the word "honor." Hence in the precept of honoring one's parents, support is also understood; as if he were to say: provide for their necessities. And this was begun from the beginning of the Church. Acts 6:1: *there arose a murmuring of the Greeks against the Hebrews, because their widows were being neglected in the daily ministration.* 2 Maccabees 3:10: *in the temple money had been deposited for the sustenance of widows and orphans.* But which widows? Those who are truly widows. A widow (*vidua*) is called as if it were "idua" from a husband (*vir*), that is, divided. For she is truly a widow who has no other persons by whom she may be sustained, and to her the necessities were given from the alms of the faithful. Then, when he says *but if any*, he explains which are truly widows; and first he shows which are not truly so; second, which are truly so, at the words *but she who*. Concerning the first, first he treats of the instruction of those who are truly widows; second he assigns the reason, at the words *for this*. He instructs, therefore, such as these, that they should learn to rule their own house. Tobit 10:13: *they taught their daughter to rule the household.* And he says *first*, because the widow who is taken up for provision to be made for her by the Church ought to be watchful with honesty. And this is what he means by *let her learn*. Again, she ought to serve her own parents, and therefore he says *a return*, etc., as if to say: just as her parents nourished her, so she too should nourish them, if she has them. And the reason for this is assigned when he adds, saying *for this is acceptable*, etc. Because these things are done not only for men, but for God. And this is clear, because the Lord gave a special commandment about this, Exodus 20:12. Which the Lord Jesus also did not wish to be omitted in the Gospel. Again, nature teaches this, that a man should repay benefits to those who bestow them. But no one has bestowed so much as parents. Then, when he says *but she who is truly*, he treats of true widows. First showing which are truly widows; second, how they are to be instructed, at the words *let her hope in God*. He says therefore, *but she who is truly a widow and desolate*, that is, who has no human consolation, namely children or parents, and such a one who has no other refuge, *let her hope in God*, even as regards the temporal aid sustained through the Church. And she ought to be instructed, first, that she be exercised in good things; second, that she beware of evils, at the words *and this command*. Concerning the first he does two things, because first he shows with what this widow ought to be occupied; second he assigns the reason, at the words *for the widow*. He says therefore *let her hope in God*, and let her exercise the act of hope that is fitting, which is done through prayer and supplication, through which what is hoped for is obtained. For prayer is a raising of the mind to God; supplication is a petition made through certain sacred things. And therefore he adds, *and let her continue in supplications and prayers*. And he says *day and night*, because it is impossible that a man's mind be without some care. And therefore, since the widow has nothing to be occupied with, she ought always to be at leisure for God. Luke 2:37: *Anna did not depart from the temple*, etc. Judith 8:5: *she made a chamber in the upper part for praying*. Then, when he says *for she who*, he gives the reason why she ought always to be at leisure for prayer, namely because it is impossible that the mind not be occupied about some delight. And since the mind of one who is idle is not occupied with useful things, it must be occupied with carnal things. And therefore he says that a widow thus desolate should be at leisure for prayer, because if she does not have this occupation, she gives herself to delights, and thus is dead with the death of sin. Apocalypse 3:1: *you have a name, that you live, and you are dead.* Isaiah 38:19: *the living, namely inwardly, the living, namely outwardly, shall confess to you.* And although delights are an occasion of death for all men, yet especially for women, because by their nature they have a softness of mind. Since therefore delights soften the mind, it is necessary that women be softened much more. Jeremiah 31:22: *how long will you be dissolved in delights, wandering daughter?* Apocalypse 18:7: *as much as she glorified herself and was in delights, so much give to her torment and mourning.* Then, when he says *and this command*, he shows that they must be instructed to beware of evils. And therefore he says that they should also forbid this, commanding that the women who are sustained by the Church should be irreproachable. Psalm 92:7: *holiness befits your house, O Lord.* Then, when he says *but if anyone*, he assigns the reason for what he has said: *let her learn first*, etc., saying that it is necessary that the widow be instructed concerning this, because this is a matter of necessity. And therefore he says *of his own*, namely those whose care falls upon him, and especially *of his household*. Song of Songs 2:4: *he ordered charity in me.* And as Augustine says, we can wish well to all, but those who are joined to us are reckoned as a certain lot, and therefore are to be loved more. Ambrose in the book *On Duties* says that the reason for this is that perhaps for those for whom it is not shameful to receive from their own, it would be shameful to receive from others. *He has denied the faith*, by works, because if he does not keep faith with those whom nature has joined to him, it follows that he does not keep it with others either. Titus 1:16: *they profess that they know God, but by their deeds they deny him.* But is this indeed true? *And he is worse than an infidel.* The contrary of this seems to appear through Augustine, John 15: *if I had not come*, etc. For upon this he says that there he is speaking of the sin of infidelity, which is graver than the rest of sins, because sins against God are graver than those against one's neighbor. I respond that the state of the faithful compared to the infidel can be considered in two ways. First, as regards the state of sin, and in this way infidels are in a worse state, because they do nothing acceptable to God. Second, as regards one particular sin, and then the contrary is the case; for if a believer and an infidel commit adultery, the believer sins more, because he does injury to the faith. And thus he says that if a believer neglects the care of his parents, he sins more gravely than if an infidel were to do this. 2 Peter 2:21: *it would have been better for them not to have known the way of righteousness, than after having known it to turn back*, etc.”
“Now she that is a widow indeed,.... A real widow, whom the Jews (r) call "a perfect one", in opposition to one that is divorced, or a brother's widow, that has had the shoe plucked off for her: and such an one as the apostle means, is one that is desolate, or "alone": who has neither husband to take care of her, nor children or nephews to show kindness to her, nor any worldly substance to subsist upon: but trusteth in God: not in man, nor in an arm of flesh, but in the living God, the giver of all good things, the Judge of widows; who vindicates their cause, avenges the injuries done them, protects and defends them, and relieves their wants, and gives all encouragement to them, to trust in him; see Jer 49:11. and continueth in supplications and prayers night and day; as the widow Anna did, Luk 2:36. A Widow indeed is one that has no outward dependence, betakes herself to the Lord, puts her confidence in him, and cries to him continually for a daily supply; and such an one, amidst all her poverty and meanness, is a living believer, one that lives by faith on the Lord; and is profitable, and useful to the church by her prayers and supplications made for them, as well as for herself; whereas she that is in the next verse described is just the reverse. (r) Jarchi in Exek. xliv. 22.”
“And desolate - Και μεμονωμενη· Left entirely alone - having neither children nor relatives to take care of her. Trusteth in God - Finding she has no other helper, she continues in prayer and supplication, that she may derive that from God which, in the course of his providence, he has deprived her of among men.”
“She that is a widow indeed, and desolate, (destitute of help, as the Greek word implieth) may be maintained; and then let her be constant in prayers and devotions night and day. (Witham) — Every Christian soul is a widow of Jesus Christ, who has been forcibly torn from her: and in her communications with heaven she ought to offer up an afflicted and humbled heart—the heart of a widow. It is thus she will avoid the dangers of the world, and secure true life in unchangeable felicity. (Haydock)”
“widow indeed, and desolate--contrasted with her who has children or grandchildren to support her (Ti1 5:4). trusteth in God--perfect tense in Greek, "hath rested, and doth rest her hope in God." Ti1 5:5 adds another qualification in a widow for Church maintenance, besides her being" desolate" or destitute of children to support her. She must be not one "that liveth in pleasure" (Ti1 5:6), but one making God her main hope (the accusative in Greek expresses that God is the ultimate aim whereto her hope is directed; whereas, Ti1 4:10, dative expresses hope resting on God as her present stay [WIESINGER]), and continuing constantly in prayers. Her destitution of children and of all ties to earth would leave her more unencumbered for devoting the rest of her days to God and the Church (Co1 7:33-34). Compare also "Anna a widow," who remained unmarried after her husband's death and "departed not from the temple, but served God with fastings and prayers day and night" (Luk 2:36-37). Such a one, Paul implies, would be the fittest object for the Church's help (Ti1 5:3); for such a one is promoting the cause of Christ's Church by her prayers for it. "Ardor in prayers flows from hoping confidence in God" [LEO]. in supplications and prayers--Greek, "in her supplications and prayers"; the former signifies asking under a sense of need, the latter, prayer (see on Ti1 2:1; Phi 4:6). night and day--another coincidence with Luke (Luk 18:7, "cry day and night"); contrast Satan's accusations "day and night" (Rev 12:10).”
The in-app commentary runs from the Fathers to the early-modern record, then stops — that's where the public-domain sources end, not where the reading does. For the modern reading, follow the sources directly.